I won't worry my life away

Wednesday, May 31, 2006

still not feeling tired.. think must be the work of the cup of kopi O i took few hours ago. haizz.. feeling quite guilty leh.. cos didn't do much work and i am still stuck in front of the com. tml i will do more..as if only.. hahaz.. i've been telling myself this since the beginning of the holidays. at least i have been enjoying myself la..

suddenly thought of what wolverine said to rogue in X-men 3 when rogue was about to leave. man... this iceman one leg step 2 boat, somemore 2 char bo also so chio one. haizzz.. forget what exactly wolverine said la, think he implied something like "is this really what u want?" seriously, this has been such a crucial statement now in my mind everytime i reflect upon the things i've done or i have yet to achieve.

good night to all

went to a different route to jog today. sat down somewhere near the bukit batok west cc basketball court to see pros in action. looks like all pros have flocked to this court already. it's not their skills that wow me, it's the teamwork, especially how they screened their opponent. Screening is a very important skill in teamplay, it enables ur teamates to qie opponents easier or give ur teamates free space to shoot more accurately. when i first started trying to screen ppl, ppl called me a "moving screen", which means i sort of commit a foul la. when screening a person, i am not supposed to like move along with that person and block him all the way la.. ehh dun really know how to put this in good english. haz.. pai seh ar.. my english not strong.

time to watch lotus lantern. bye all

my uclers have fully recovered. plus my sunburnt skin are all peeling off. GREAT!. think is time for sentosa again. hahaz.. or maybe east coast this time round. finally washed my crumpler bag yesterday. now it looks as good as new and it's drying fast. hopefully i can use it tml. :)

think today is the actual date to eat dumplings, 2 dumplings were already swimming in my stomach after my breakfast. maybe i should eat more later. Holidays also mean instant noodles running out fast. I've been cooking instant noodles with ham and egg for my lunch for the past 2 days liao, partly is because i lazy to go downstairs buy la and the other reason is to save $$$ for movies and those things i wanna buy. Today gonna buy myself something nice for lunch and probably stock up the honey baked ham supply. o_O

in the mood for jogging again. perhaps i am really too bored at home. hope it doesn't rain in the evening.

"I'm just start to find, the better part of me"

Tuesday, May 30, 2006

sian... why must JJ put the common test at the last week of the june holidays. haizz.. eat away one week of holiday somemore never return us. roAR!!!! it's like want to play also have a burden to carry with la, knowing very well that common test is just few weeks away. oh man.. this is saddening.

somehow i miss school a bit la. hahaz.. think i am siao liao. but staying at home stoning my time away ain't a very good thing either. rate of doing hw really is cannot make it la. i can finish one question and walk to the window and stare at the scenery outside for no reason. can read notes halfway then daydream and i had to read all over again. boohoohoo.. i am easily distracted. no good no good.

enough of whining. saturday is swiss alumni day. wootZ~! gonna meet up my secondary friends. got BBQ also. wahaha... good food = good day. of cos the main motive to go is not for the food la. maybe xiang long is. wahahahahahaX. dun hoot me on saturday ar.

i have decided what to buy liao. hahaz.. just a matter of time before i head down to town to get those stuffs. hehe =)

few days ago i had 1 cup of kopi O, 1 cup of coffee with milk and 2 cups of tea in less than 6 hours. lol.. courtesy of Mac. saw someone at the Mac too. wootZ~! sg is small la, hahaz.. i am happy for u friend. :)

Monday, May 29, 2006

singapore great sale is here! man... so much things to buy la. went to shop around yesterday but then didn't buy anything la cause there are so much things that attract me and i have to be careful with my expenditure,plus i have few more movies to catch. I shall spend few hours today thinking which of those items i saw yesterday are worth buying. some of the ripcurl boardshorts i saw yesterday were on 50% discount. hahaz... after discount is like $40 like tat? even cheaper than OP boardshorts which cost $40 over normally, now got sale so i dunno la.

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Day 1 of holiday

Woke up at 10am in the morning? song ar! my body clock simply knows how to adjust, normally 6am or so i will auto wake up liao. Hmm.. spent most of my time today doing reflections.Still, i manage drag myself for the jog today though not really in the mood to jog . Did some homework lor and the amount is really pathetic. Felt as though omniknight was near and i was affected by its slow aura, oh man.. why am i thinking of dota . hahaz.. now tv showing wong fei hong, dunno repeat how many times liao.

day 1 will be gone soon.. dun really feel the holiday mood leh. felt as though normal weekends to me. nvm.. tml cannot waste time like that, need to jiayou on everything i do, so maybe need to go caltex,esso or spc to top up my fuel level.

tml will be a better day, that's for sure. =D

"ni shi wo wei yi xiang yao de liao jie"

Friday, May 26, 2006

X Men 3 is awesome! a must watch for during the holidays for all. finally got to watch a movie in the new cathay cineplex. wootz~! 600 seats i think. called the grand cathay which is actually its theatre 1 there la. hahaz.. sounds cool la.

Saw shurong again! hahaz.. exactly 1 week from now and it's at ps where we met again. what a coincidence sia. hahaz.Anyway,tried shihlin's mee sua just now. hahaz.. so so lor.

hey hey.. holidays are finally here! think i am being little bit optimistic by calling it "holidays". hahaz.. time to sleep. zzZZzzzzz

"For you i'll take the last flight out"

Thursday, May 25, 2006

finally all the SPA are over.. plus holidays are approaching. woohoo~!

3 uclers in my mouth now, super pain whenever i eat anything. sometimes even as i talked, my teeth come in contact with it. hahaz.. still, this did not stop me from eating mos burger a few days back and all other heaty foods every now and then. these uclers had been there since last friday and still hasn't show any sign of recovery.

like what u said, time will only move forward. true, so let's work towards a bright future bah. =)

dumplings festival is coming. wahaha.. i am having dumplings for supper later.. swee la! :)

"Know that I'll be okay now, this time is real"

Sunday, May 21, 2006

hmm.. glad u are feeling better. u happy I also will be happy de. :) actually got more things to say la, but then think say le also no use anymore. maybe ur sixth sense has already sense wat i am thinking, i remembered u telling me women's sixth very accuarate one.

here's the events of the memorable 19/5/06

woke up at 6 plus as usual. eat breakfast then go pack bag le. stone a while then met chak yong at the bus stop near my house to burrow soccer ball at 7.45am. both of us were punctual. haz.. then wait a few mins for jonathan. 188 arrive shortly. boon yong joined jonathan and me on the bus trip a few bus-stops away. initially the bus is quite packed la, after IMM that stop, we can finally feel the flow of the air. chit-chat all the way to habourfront de inderchange lor. 3 of us alighted and saw boon tat already there. mark arrive shortly too. hahaz... mark was really funny la. he showed us a receipt for his mrt trip. he board the train at 5.15am at eunos, slept all the way to boon lay and back to paris ris. lol... but then he still met us on time la.. he needs to pay i think $2 for staying for so long on the train. hahaz..

then the 5 of us habourfront centre to stock up our food and drinks. jonathan lim joined us as we were busy taking food off the shelves.hmm.. 2 jonathans now. then we headed to siloso beach nor. reach there like before 10am, oh man.. we are real early i guess. i feel as though we own the beach or something, so empty. then we continue walking to find a shelter that we want. after we settled down, we went to make goal posts using sand and sticks on the beach. play until 6-5 then all tired le. so we rest a while then went to cool ourselves with the sea water. CAUTION: DO NOT ENTER THE SEA WHEN IT IS VERY VERY LOW TIDE. omg. we really regretted la. we stepped on tons of seaweeds on the bedfloor and the feeling is so er xin. omg.. after a while we had to head back to shelter with our pants and erm... everything wet la. by then, got a lot ppl come liao. then me, mark and boon yong lied down on the beach and sun tan. WOOHOO~! superb. 3 of us just lie down there resting, chit-chattng and let time slowly past. machiam now holiday. marvellous. the other 3 dunno doing wat... think they watching girls.

hahaz.. after sun tanning, i think we had our lunch. just some bread and biscuit lor. after that we played touch rugby using the soccer ball of cos. lol.. as i run on the beach now, can feel my toes experiencing a sharp pain. i thought is blister or wat, then when i reach home and check, aiya, got quite a deep cut on my toe. dunno tml pc play games how sia..if jogging still ok la. then play like 1/2 hr we breathless liao. think the sun really drain a lot of our energy. so we head back to get some drink. change to play soccer again. played until the tide got quite high le then we head for the sea and have fun. mark is pro man! his whole body can float on the sea water without doing anything la. i tried and obviously failed and got some sea water into my ear instead. -.-""" then swim in the sea lor. it is really a big difference as compared to swimming in the swimming pool la. u can feel the hot and cold currents in the water every now and then. it's really a mixture.

after that we rested and dried ourselves. then we were thinking of different pose for our group photos. hahaz.. after we had decided, i went up to an ang moh to ask him help us take photos. i told him 5 shots. his expression was darn funny. 5?! lol.. think he can't wait to go back to sun tan with his gf. still got more shots not group de la. taken by ourselves. hahaz.. we left sentosa at 3?

we headed to plaza sing and i saw shurong!!!! hahahazzz it has really been a long long while since i last saw her nah. walk around ps a while then we head to some place near ps to play lan game. not really near also, 15 mins walk? first we started with dota la. hahaz.. then boon yong set all random, i kena this hero called axe or something. ok la.. dota is quite a nice game la. no wonder so many ppl are addicted to it. obviously i got owned numerous times but i also get to kill! hahaz.. only 2 times la and somemore 1 is ks mark de. lol... played till 6.30pm then we left.

we headed to this place called paradiz centre or wat de. think the kbox there is super big or did i see wrongly after spending 2.5 hours play lan games. 80 over rooms? dunno leh.. think i saw the room no.84. not too sure.. then searching for place to eat dinner. there like not much to eat so we went to funan to eat because mark needs to collect his electric guitar somewhere near funan after sending for repair. the repair cost him $120 and he told me is cheap compare to the previous few repairs which cost him 500 or 600 bucks? omg.. his guitar alone cost a bomb. then we went to eat KFC at funan. this KFC quite different from the rest la. got taco bell and pizza hut orders as well. so is 3 in 1 but mainly KFC la. by the time we finish our dinner is close to 9 already.

the next thing to do is to find the machine to develop the photos from mark's camera. we search the whole of funan but to no avail. cos like 80% of the shops close already. then we walk to raffles that shopping centre and went to the basement. we finally found the machine at a supermarket. woohoo~! then slowly wait lor. gosh.. the pictures were awesome man.. definitely among the best i have taken so far, especially those group photos.

at last, we headed home. what a fabulous day!

Saturday, May 20, 2006

saturday evening jog seemed like a routine. today's jog is more happening bah. As i ran past the basketball court, my friend saw me and cycle from behind to catch up with me. Oh man.. it has really been a long while since i last saw him. I get to know this guy in sec 1 or 2 at that time when i am crazy over bball. back then, i would go and play bball at least twice a week and i get to know one group of friends, think is around 8 of them bah. update each other while i jogged and he continued cycling. somehow i just dun feel tired.

yesterday's outing to sentosa is totally awesome la. all the sunburn,minor cuts, uclers due to not drinking enough water are all worth it. i will give a full coverage of yesterday's event in my next post.

Thursday, May 18, 2006

just as i was coping better mentally, i am wounded physically, -.-"" how unlucky one can get. fell from a high-speed layup, my wrist hurts and my back is aching. God bless me.

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

came back from my jog not long ago. ran an extra round today. while resting, i began to ponder why do i run frequently nowadays. after some brainstorming, i have come up with some possible reasons.

1. To keep fit (This sounds mundane)

2. To have a smaller tummy so i will look better when i head for sentosa this coming friday ( hehe)

3. An excuse not to do my work ( but then i can just stone my time away as usual)

4. I am preparing for NS ( I didn't know i have planned that far)

5. To use the computer less because it could crash any moment due some infections by spywares and watsoever. It just crashed a few days ago and some miracle just happen to revive my com. ( heng ar)

6. Because my stamina has improved and I am getting better at running a further distance

7. To clear my blocked nose ( Sometimes this really works. However, sometimes my blocked nose just got worse. )

8. To make myself tired so as to sleep easier and better at night

hmm.. from point no. 6, it evokes another thought in me. from my point of view, most of us would prefer to engage in activities we are better at. For example, when given a choice of games, we tend to choose one which we are more familiar with or we are better at. Also, from our daily experience, given such a huge workload, we will clear those homework which we find that it is easier first before handling the more difficult ones.

my stomach is rumbling already, time for my dinner.

got quite a shock just now. while walking home after alighting from the bus, i headed to the usual pull-up bar. intended to do a few pull-ups before going home. i must say i was lucky la, there is a huge spiderweb across the 2 wooden poles supporting the bar and i stopped at a position a few centimetres away from the web. phew, my face could have been completely coated with the web if i had continued walking,yes the web is that BIG.

now the sun is still scorching hot. hopefully in a few hours time, the weather will turn cooler and i can enjoy my evening jog.

guess i got too worked up yesterday, now i am in a better state of mind. but still, things aren't better.

you broke my limit.

"Less is more and there would be a vacant space, the cried out tears and a never ending maze"

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

hmm.. what should i say? poseidon was nice, chem SPA was alright. saw eddie and seph, at least that brightens me a little. i really miss them sia, as well as the other secondary sch friends. so moodless, perhaps i am tired. maybe ar.

who would have gone through the same situation as me,i would say none. sometimes things just seemed uncontrolled, everything's in chaos and i hate it. who would have experience such excruciating pain in such manner. felt as though i am bleeding from inside. i am sick of my perpetual complains. i've lost my confidence, it's all too late. i guessed i have read the signs earlier this time,albeit it was still a bit slower. I have only myself to blame. I need to sleep away time.

Sunday, May 14, 2006

Again i am full of thoughts while resting after my jog. Isn't it so xing ku to stay at the top always. Being the no.1 always certainly is a tremendous task. When challenged upon by an underdog who has nothing to lose, the pressure is definitely on the no.1. I remembered one top sportsman saying "I have only myself to beat". This sounds super cocky but true to some extent. Knowing that ur records is comfortably way ahead of all ur opponents, the only opponent is urself. Dunno leh, with so much pressure on them, these superb sportsmen can still perform up to ur standards,sometimes exceeding it. I must really kowtow to them.

Today i am super pig la. Woke up at 7 plus, ate breakfast and slept again till noon for lunch. hahaz.. then did some physics and started my stoning process. Then went jogging to compensate for eating so much food recently. Later i having KFC for dinner la. hahaz.. Life's great with great food. Who wouldn't agree?

Saturday, May 13, 2006

finally get to dine at cafe cartel yesterday. erm.. it was nice la but i would prefer fish&co if given a choice between the two of them. yee loong,jun long and me shared soft shell crabs,prawns,fries and st.louis pork ribs. i think the pork ribs is the best among these. saw this asics shoes which is quite nice except for the front part and it is $49.90 only cos old model. on second thoughts now, i am glad i did not buy it, i still think i like the red nike dunks the most and it cost 3 times as much la. hahaz.. most probably i would not get it so soon bah, maybe a christmas present for myself? not too sure also, cos new and better designs might come out by that time already. i estimated around $50 will be spent on movies from now till the end of june. so it is quite impossible to think of my dunks now.

somehow i just missed sentosa terribly. the evocative landscape reminds me of many wonderful memories,needless to say, those great buddies who went there with me.those sunburns i got are worth it. only with great buddies, u dun really care about image and can unleash the "craziness" within u. i dare to say those who went with me to sentosa so far were all my great buddies and i cherish all of u. :) hope that didn't make ur hair stand if u were reading it.

2 more weeks till the arrival june holidays! Rejoice!

Thursday, May 11, 2006

think this is one of the less stressful week so far in the year. less stressful in a sense that i am not rushing to complete homework, have enough sleep, in a better health, more time to stone in school and home. actually stoning is quite a nice thing to do la. just sit there and do nothing,observing ur surroundings from time to time.

physics spa trial and chem test is over. chem test was quite ok la,finished it just in time. spa trial wasn't that horrible la.

mission impossible 3 was cool la. the next movie to watch will be poseidon. hahaz..

long weekend ahead. have not plan anything yet.

"nobody said it would be easy, no one ever said that it would be so hard"

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

it's always great to find the answer to your question after long period of thinking and also being well again after fighting off terrible blocked nose,cough and sore throat. These accounts for my happier mood today. :)

hmm.. how many times have we escaped reality to make ourselves happier? i guess for most of us, the figures is quite high bah. but then, when the deadline approach or when we are reminded of the incident, we plung into sadness once more. of course most of the time we cannot find the perfect solution to it, but from my point of view, it would be better to face it than to put it aside temporary. i feel that mostly, we do have some ways to alleviate the problem by a little, it is just that we will tend to take the easier route which is simply be nonchalant about the issue.

It is easier to smile than to frown and i find this absolutely true. Even if u dislike someone at the moment, one thing u definitely should try and avoid is to find fault with the person. I feel that this would only make life more difficult for urself only. At the end of the day, the person may not be affected by your actions and yet u have lost ur own precious time. One day u might come to realise that, hey, this person is not so bad after all la.

Been having too much thoughts recently, maybe i have more time now bah. I am not sure. However, my opinions towards certain issues close to my heart have changed completely. hmm.. sometimes, when u are exposed to too many lies, it is extremely difficult to judge which is really the truth.

My vision is clear, my stand is firm, my wounds are healing and i have no intention to pry open it once more, my priorities have been set. Woohoo~! I think my prayers were answered. Life is beautiful.

"I know that it might sound more than a little crazy but i believe.... I knew I love u before I met u, I think I dream u into life"

Sunday, May 07, 2006

it seems to me that recently, many of my friends aren't in a good mood. a lot of them were having troubles. or rather, some had already sunk into depression mode. to make things worse, i wasn't in very good mood either. when u are feeling down and u see the friends surrounding you plunging into sadness, that's one of the worst thing that can happen la. I prayed for a turning point to happen real soon.

if u were the one that is making people around u laugh all the while,who do u turn to when u needed a laugh?

Saturday, May 06, 2006

Went to jog again, how ironic it seems. Napfa is over then i started jogging consistently. Hmm.. Sometimes, in life we only treasure things when it is no longer there. Only then, we will be blaming ourselves, thinking " aiya, shouldn't have done this " "if i had knew what u were thinking" "if i could turn back time" "why didn't i grab that opportunity" .....

Ran past the bus-stop with mission impossible 3 poster again. Sian, I have yet to catch this show. I took a closer look this time and found that Tom Cruise looks like Michael Owen in that angle. Don't know how long i had run, but definitely with much more ease. Think my stamina has improved slightly le.

After my run, i sat down at a nearby basketball court to rest. Meanwhile, observing a group of boys playing basketball. Think they are around primary 4 to 6 that age bah and they just started playing only. Realise something, they tend to keep track of fouls throughout the game. For example, "orh, u hit my hand, foul. " "u last touch the ball, out, is ours." Dunno why, this provoke a thought within me. How often do we look at people's flaw? How often do we look at people's talent? In my point of view, i feel that most would look more at other's flaw bah.

From Wei Yuan, "Everything happens for a reason, and its always a long while after that one sees the reasons.Whatever it is, my choices made here will only be justified right or wrong after a long time later. Until then, I can only wait." I agreed fully. Some things only time can tell.

Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose.
And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows.
The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door.
The card said, "Be my Valentine", like all the years before.
Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say,"I love you even more this year, than last year on this day.
My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."
She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear.
She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day.
Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away.
He always liked to do things early, way before the time.
Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.
She trimmed the stems, and placed them in a very special vase.
Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.
She would sit for hours, in her husband's favorite chair.
While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.
A year went by, and it was hard to live without her mate.
With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate.
Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before,The doorbell rang, and there were roses, sitting by her door.
She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.
The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain,Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?"
I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,"
The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you would want to know.
The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.
There is a standing order, that I have on file down here,And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year.
There also is another thing, that I think you should know,He wrote a special little card...he did this years ago.
Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here,That's the card...that should be sent, to you the following year."
She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached to get the card.
Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note.Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote..."Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone,I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.
I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real.
For if it was the other way, I know how I would feel.
The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.
I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need.
I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve.
I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears.
That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.
When you get these roses, think of all the happiness,That we had together, and how both of us were blessed.
I have always loved you and I know I always will.
But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.
Please...try to find happiness, while living out your days.
I know it is not easy, but I hope you find someways.
The roses will come every year, and they will only stop,When your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.
But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt,To take the roses to the place, where I've instructed him,And place the roses where we are, together once again.

a lot of things in life have to do with momentum.

1.running( also the most common example)
once i stop without reaching my destination, i will find it hard to regain the momentum. it seemed impossible for me, but i dunno about others.

2.finishing my food.
i consider myself as someone who eats above average proportion of food daily. but sometimes, while globbling my food, i stop in the middle of it. then, i will find myself too bloated and unable to finish the food already. it is not that i am full, it is just that i lost the momentum.

3.doing my homework.
my rate of doing homework varies. if i stop and starts to daydream. it will be hard for me to regain my focus. at optimum rate, i will build up my momentum slowly from the start. doing each and every question faster and faster.

4.blogging.
hmm.. i am not too sure how to put in words for this.

5.momentum = mass X velocity.
somebody please punch me for this.

i am typing this entry to keep myself awake. running nose tablets are just like slumber potion to me. it never fails to make me feel dizzy. therefore, some of the contents in this entry might seems senseless.

enough of momentum, it's time i put in more effort in my circular motion. have not yet done one question on my own till now.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

sian, i am really down with running nose. :( just finished self attempt on periodicity and my hands are numb from copying the notes.

"i foresee a tragedy but i can only pray in silent"

just came back from my haircut. hmm.. waited for like 2 hrs and it is tuesday somemore?hahaz, still remember the first time me and boon yong went to this salon,the hairstylist inside simply snub us and told us that all of them were booked for the entire day. i was thinking to myself what the hell,demand is that high? nvm, it's worth the wait. this time round the hairstylist quite skill de, jot down her name le. next time before i go will call for appointment. boon yong and me were there waiting and we saw some merely called and came down and THEY GOT TO CUT THEIR HAIR FIRST! roar!!!! nvm, learn my lesson this time round.

haiz... been coughing and sneezing today. maybe someone cursing and swearing at me? no la, think i abit sick le. boohoohoo~!

Monday, May 01, 2006

THE MAYONNAISE JAR AND COFFEE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar... and the coffee... A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full.

They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls He then asked the studentsagain if the jar was full.

They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.

The students responded with a infamous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents in to the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed. "Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things. Your family, your children, your faith, your health, your friends, and your favourite passions. Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter. Your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff."If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."